Conwy foster carers proud to see young people thrive

Foster carers in Conwy have shared the “breakthrough” moments that make fostering so rewarding, as part of this year’s Foster Care Fortnight campaign.

From the first laugh to sitting down together to watch a film, foster carers say it is often the small everyday moments that show a child is beginning to feel safe, trusted and supported after trauma.

The stories have been highlighted by Foster Wales Conwy during Foster Care Fortnight, the UK’s biggest annual awareness campaign for fostering, which runs throughout May under the theme “This is Fostering”.

Children who have experienced trauma can often develop protective behaviours, including anxiety, emotional withdrawal, intense emotional reactions or difficulty following rules.

A national survey commissioned by Foster Wales found around 80 per cent of foster carers had supported children displaying trauma-related behaviours. Despite the challenges, half of carers said they saw a meaningful breakthrough within the first six months.

For many carers, those breakthroughs are not dramatic moments, but signs that a child is beginning to trust again.

Steve and Karen, who have fostered with Foster Wales Conwy for more than 15 years, say caring for teenagers has become one of the most rewarding parts of their journey.

Their approach centres on helping young people gain independence and confidence by gradually introducing responsibilities and life skills.

“These may seem like small lessons, but they help build confidence and support young people in imagining a future for themselves,” they said.

Steve said the most rewarding part is “when you see them now” and witness what young people have gone on to achieve.

Karen added: “We’re proud of all of them because they’ve all achieved something.”

Young people they have cared for have gone on to attend university, qualify in professions including nursing and dental care, find employment, learn to drive and build independent lives.

Many also continue to stay in touch long after leaving care, returning for Christmas dinners, barbecues and regular visits.

Stephanie Robbins, Head of Children, Family and Safeguarding Services at Conwy County Borough Council, said foster carers play a vital role in helping children rebuild trust and confidence.

She said: “At Foster Wales Conwy, we’re proud of our foster carers and the steady, life-changing support they provide to young people, often at times when it’s needed most.

“As Steve and Karen highlighted, it’s the small, everyday moments - sharing a meal, talking about school, choosing a film - that help young people feel safe, build trust and start to believe in their own future.

“Having a trusted, consistent adult can make all the difference in helping children lower their guard and take steps forward after trauma.”

The survey also found that after gaining experience, support and professional guidance, 93 per cent of foster carers said they now feel confident responding to trauma-related behaviour.

Across Wales, councils continue to appeal for more foster carers amid growing demand for placements, particularly for teenagers, sibling groups and children with additional needs.

People interested in finding out more about fostering in Conwy can visit Foster Wales Conwy for information about the application process, training and support available.